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Anyhow, I am shocked to see that my page view has increased after leaving that one comment to a certain blog. Welcome to new visitors, thanks for commenting, and I am deeply sorry if my blog content is not worth your time.
Now I feel pressured because I realized there are going to be other people who will read this blog. So I think there will be
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Regarding the title, today while waiting for my turn for the exam, I was hanging around with a group of girls (and one straight guy) when I heard that one of the girls (or more? seems like more) had given that straight guy present during his birthday (maybe a card too), which was no too long ago.
Suddenly I have this feeling of
You see, during my birthday a month ago, I decided to hide my birthday, because I would to see who would remember my birthday without the facebook notification. And also, wanting to test my popularity, because Mr G hides his birthday but the he still got lots of wishes.
In the end I get very little birthday wishes, while Mr G still got a lot of wishes, as always. I think one of the reason is he has sisters (who initiates all the wishes) while I got brothers. It takes no brainer to know that guys don't give a damn about birthdays.
Anyhow, I don't know what am I to these group of people that I mentioned previously. I mean I went to all their birthday celebrations (except the one that the girls did in their house) and I believe I attend more birthdays than that guy, but I only get birthday wishes on twitter while that guy got a present! and maybe cards!
Well I don't give any of the girls present because they invite me like in a short notice. But I think that guy are not giving anything either. He doesn't even come!!
In the end, I guess that guy are so excellent in social skills which I am suck at. I think it is an quite a skill to be able making people realize you presence even when your body wasn't even there.
I hate that I suck at socializing. And when I am being nice people took me for granted.
Its your blog. You should write whatever you want to. Don't let other people's expectations affect you.
ReplyDeleteAs for birthdays, sometimes people take you for granted. And there's really nothing anyone can do about it. But I personally dislike people who hide their birthdays from Facebook and expect people to remember. Coz everyone depends on Facebook for important dates now. Unless of course someone has a little book where the birthdays are written or something.
i hide, but i don't really mind people wishing or not, because i don't wish at other people FB's anymore lol. i already know that i am nobody. in my post i just wanted to point that how some people are so blessed.
ReplyDeletethere is a girl in that circle who keep birth date in her phone calendar. she even mentioned it in the twitter
i realized now i am not "really" in their circles. even with all the things i did. well for now my motto is "I don't give, so i won't receive".