Monday, August 06, 2012

Choosing friends

It is the fasting month of Ramadhan. We have done with our exams, and now enjoying the moment before the result comes out while having the pre-internship.

Anyhow, I think now is the perfect time to do my postponed birthday party. Or rather, birthday break-fast. People are supposed to do birthday party to the birthday boy but I think for my batch it is the opposite (-.- ").

I have few close friends, those I've known them for 6 years. I've decided to treat them by eating out as they live far from my house.

I am planing to cook something for my birthday celebration for my other friends. The question now is who will be invited?

It is such a headache to think who I will I invite, who I will not. Because when I invites a person from a house, my conscience said that it would not be nice if I don't invite his housemates.

The rules is simple. Equivalent exchange. You treated me before, I'll treat you. So I guess those who don't treat me back after I treat them before, won't be invited.

I felt a bit hurt that some of the people that I treat before don't treat me back. I don't want to be calculative but really, if you treat me, I won't ask for the most expensive food.

On the other hand, the are a few people who I want to treat just because I like their looks (slut!).

I feel jealous of these people because they don't have to be polite and stayed being a jerk yet because people will still talks to them. I knew one of them who always complain. -.-

As for me, I need to work hard to please others (but I don't always do that anymore).

Talking about being calculative, I think all the above feeling comes because I am being stingy. But really, I am so jealous of those who don't really spends their money to please people but somehow people aware of their presence and will always invites them to every party.

I am suck at socializing. again.

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